Every single one of us is pretty much as individual as a snowflake or a thumbprint. However we are raised to adjust. When in school, you don't do likewise as every other person, a discipline is given out so you 'know better sometime later'. To find your uniqueness and apply it is the reason you are alive on this planet at the present time. In the event that somebody doesn't perceive who you will be you thusly feel un-recognized. Thus you need to figure out how to recognize others so you don't make them feel something very similar.